For Men only: How to have sex with a virgin

First time sex can be pretty awkward and uncomfortable,
especially when you are experienced and she is not.
You are the one guy that gets to introduce her to sex and
you want to make the encounter a memorable and
pleasurable one so she does not freak out and run out the
door.
Take control: You’re the experienced one here, and she’s
going to need your firm, but gentle, guidance. In fact, shes
going to expect it, so don’t be afraid to lead with
confidence; women love men who take charge in the
bedroom. Let her determine the pace, but never lose sight
of who’s teaching whom. You’re the expert; it’s your job
to gauge her level of arousal. You want her incredibly
horny (and as wet as you can get her) before you go the
whole nine yards. She’s going to remember this for the
rest of her life.
Relax her
It’s natural for her to feel a bit jittery, but you can ease
much of that anxiety with a few simple tricks. She’s likely
to be feeling self-conscious, so start with a few confidence
boosters. Tell her she’s sexy and let her know she looks
fantastic in your bed. Even if she already knows this,
hearing you say it will do wonders. Spend extra time
kissing, letting her know you're focused is on her, and not
just her body. Talk to her as you touch her body, find out
what she likes and what she doesn’t. It may sound one-
sided, but this should be all about her and what she’s
offering you — as opposed to what you’re taking. Let her
know this, and she’ll relax completely.
Turn her on
No doubt it sounds like an obvious tip, but this one is
more overlooked than you might realise. You want her so
hot she’s purring with lust and begging for it — and you
want to keep her that way until the moment of truth.
Unfortunately, many men break the mojo just before
penetration. It’s not intentional, they just get a bit tense
knowing they’re about to cause their partner a minor
amount of pain. Relax, she knows what's coming and
she’s not going to hold it against you. Go slowly, but don’t
forget to kiss and caress her as you do. This gives her
something else to focus on and keeps her aroused, which
will actually decrease her sensitivity to pain.
Be willing to slow down and stop
She may be ready and willing at the start of the evening,
but be prepared for that to change before the deed is
done. Rest assured, it doesn’t mean she doesn’t want you,
it just means she’s not ready. Some women are more
sexually liberated than others — her virginity might be
something she can’t cope with losing right now. On the
other hand, she might just need a little reassurance. She
may need evidence that you really care about her and are
willing to wait. A willingness to stop and take a step back
is often all the proof a woman needs. It may even be
enough for her to decide to keep going. Either way, a little
compassion in this area will earn you major points.
Just because she’s a virgin doesn’t mean she’s a cold
fish; she’s probably just waiting for the right man to come
along and show her how it’s done. A little compassion in
this arena could land you a very loyal woman who’s eager
to please. Don’t shy away from the "good girl" — step up
to the plate and show her what she’s been missing out
on.